First Impression
Heterosexual male travelers should consider that Georgian girls like attention but not too much attention. Make her conscious of your feelings but do not overact; leave room for doubt and keep your dignity. Be like Bond, James Bond – Georgian girls like well-dressed men. Dress to impress, but keep it natural. Don’t do tank tops unless you have a body of Ryan Gosling.
No whistling, no butt spanking, no shouting “Hey sexy!”, no smart-ass pick-up lines, no macho attitudes when considering dating in Georgia. Do you remember the movie “Crazy, Stupid Love”? Be like Ryan!
Dating
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Georgian girls like to bring friends on their dates. Do not be surprised when they arrive and be ready to pay for all of them, not only for the meal but for drinks and cabs as well. Use her friends to your advantage. If the friends like you, then your chances are high she will as well.
Do not be surprised when she receives a call from her mom. Most of the girls (guys as well) live with their parents, and their parents always call them asking when they will be back home. If she receives a call at 10-11 pm and you hear her saying “Moval male!”, forget about having sex. Pornhub will be your partner for tonight.
Virgin Bride
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There was a cultural belief (and it is still widely present in rural areas) that a woman should be a virgin when married. Therefore, quite a few Georgian girls are trying to keep their purity for their future husbands. Do not be surprised if you stumble upon an obstinate girl unwilling to “give in,” and don’t get too excited if you end up making out. It does not mean you are getting laid tonight; Georgian girls can make out for ages and still somehow manage to keep their panties on.
One-night Stand
One-night stands are rare but possible. Here you need to master the art of a glance. Look, but don’t stare, smile but don’t be a clown, give her time, if she likes you, she will provide you with a sign.
After that sign, do not jump on her as a lion jumps on prey. Go slow and start with buying her a drink or asking for a dance.
Also, pay attention to her friends – are they alone, or do they always try to hang around? If they don’t leave you be, chances are slim that she will follow you home. Try not to be the one saying, “Let’s go.” It is always better if the girl makes a move to leave. It is only after you have exited the venue together that you suggest going to your place.
Women in Action
Things are definitely easier for heterosexual female travelers looking for a date or a relationship in Georgia. It would help if you remembered that local men are used to slightly more modest behavior than you might think. Above all, this concerns alcohol. Know your maximum.
Watch how you dress up. Georgians are stylish and value fashionable over sexy. Do not wear tight or super mini skirts. Among world fashion styles, Italian seems most appreciated in Georgia. Be self-confident and remember that your arrival from abroad already kindles tremendous interest in you from Georgian men.
Gay Sex
Clubs are the best places to hook up. Cafe Gallery on Griboedov street is a great place to start, so are Khidi and Bassiani. Things get more complicated if you are not fond of techno music. It’s critical to understand that Georgia has a lot of hostile homophobic behavior.
There is an odd irony in Georgia. You should avoid excessive kissing and other overt PDAs in streets, public areas, and particularly in and near churches.
However, you may see guys often have their arms around their bros, give each other little pecks, or even lie on each other on a perk bench. We advise you to watch how intensely you show affection for your safety. No one will probably hurt you, but it is never pleasant to feel someone’s disapproving look behind your back.
Most gay parties are held in secret so ask your local friends about times and venues.
Prostitution
Prostitution is illegal in Georgia, but there are places where you can find it. Don’t buy sex. It’s not what James Bond does. It is not what Ryan likes. However, if you want to receive professional service, you can find them on certain streets and saunas. Street workers are very unsafe, and our blog does recommend so avoid them at all costs. The quality of the saunas ranges from very low to decent, but they still aren’t recommended.
The latest industry trend here is Chinese and Thai massage parlors, where everything, including the massage, happens. In short, we do not recommend buying professional sex services in Georgia.
What happens after?
After sex, you can take a cigarette and light it up with a big smile on your face. You deserved it; you managed to seduce a Georgian. If you don’t smoke, the chances are high that she does. Let her light up, and you do a big smile.
Although Georgians do not like one-night stands and tend to shift sex into something more, we do not think that will be an issue for any tourist. Therefore have no worries as you will not have to take her out again.
We are not predators, and this is not a hunting competition. Feel free to exchange Facebook profiles, give some meaning to the intercourse, and act that you care. Georgians are amicable people. We love it when you come back; we love it when we come back.
Dating App in Tbilisi and Georgia
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Tinder is the most popular dating app in Tbilisi. While it can be helpful to get laid and ease things with dating in Georgia, it can also turn into an unpleasant encounter, so be cautious and attentive.
Tips on where to look for pick-ups
Tbilisi has a variety of clubs and other places to find your Mr./Ms. However, for general pick-ups, it’s better to go to small, cozy clubs or bars like Café Gallery, Mtkvarze, Khidi, Basiani, Fabrika, or Deda Ena bar, where socializing happens more; you can quickly look through every possible target.
Although pick-up strategies are more or less the same in every club, the type of girls you meet differs from the club you hit. Touristy areas in the old town provide more fashionistas in high heels with a lot of makeup who are ready to mingle-they will expect your flirting. If you want a more casual, hipster-styled partner, then the underground clubs are the place to go.
Be yourself
This is the best advice we can give you: be who you are! If you think you need to fit into some stereotype that we’ve advised to have a successful date – forget them and everything. Never force yourself to be someone else for anyone or anything. Dates, relationships, and fantastic sex should all align with your personality, and this will happen either in Georgia or elsewhere.